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Companionship and Conversation

Eating meals together is a fundamental aspect of being human. Discover three reasons why it’s good for us.

Companion is a wonderful word. Its roots come from the Latin words com meaning ‘together with’ and panis meaning ‘bread’. Literally, ‘together with bread’. The act of breaking bread has bonded humans for millenia. The simplicity of this concept resonates today in a word that signifies a shared humanity, altruism and loyalty.

Eating meals together has been a fundamental aspect of human culture from our days as nomadic hunter-gatherers through to meeting up with a friend for a coffee and something sweet and delicious. Sadly, nowadays people frequently eat alone. Whether sharing food around the campfire to gathering around the family dinner table, eating meals together is a time-honoured tradition that is celebrated around the world. While the benefits of sharing meals may seem obvious, there are many reasons why this practice is important, not only for our physical health but also for our social and emotional wellbeing.

n a room with the window opened into a landscape, gathered around a dining table, are two seated women, a grown-up girl, and eight children eating slices of melons.
Family Eating Melon by Giuseppe Barberi, c.1800. Courtesy: Museum purchase through gift of various donors

One key benefit of eating meals together is that it promotes healthier eating habits. Research has shown that people who eat with others tend to consume more fruits and vegetables and are less likely to consume unhealthy foods than those who eat alone. In addition to promoting healthier eating habits, eating meals together can also help to strengthen relationships. Sharing meals can create a sense of community and fosters a feeling of togetherness that is difficult to replicate in other settings. Whether it’s sharing a meal with family members or enjoying a meal with friends, eating together can help to deepen our connections with others and improve our overall sense of wellbeing.

In fact, eating meals together has been shown to reduce stress levels. A survey by the American Heart Association found that 91% of parents notice their family is less stressed when they share family meals together. Eating together can create a sense of calm and comfort, and can help to reduce feelings of anxiety and stress. Sharing a meal with others facilitates conversation and can promote mental stimulation, which can help to keep our brains active and engaged. Perhaps most importantly, many of our fondest memories are formed around the dinner table. It’s a time set aside from the stresses of the workday and the tractor beam of TV screens to listen, learn and laugh with loved ones.

Eating meals together has been shown to reduce stress levels.
Eating meals together has been shown to reduce stress levels.

Finally, eating meals together can help to create a sense of tradition and continuity. Every one has that one special recipe from a parent, aunt, uncle, grandparent or sibling that just can’t be topped. Sharing meals can help to create memories and traditions that can be passed down from generation to generation.

Eating meals together is an important practice that has numerous benefits for our physical, social, and emotional well-being. From promoting healthier eating habits to improving relationships and reducing stress levels, there are many reasons why sharing meals with others is so important. So next time you have the opportunity to share a meal with friends and family, be sure to put down your phone and enjoy the moment.

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